Question:
The email said, Hi Michelle, been a while, hope everything is going well for you, anyway iv just found out that kasia is married and apperently very happy, so anyway thank you for everything but eh… you wont be hearing from me ever again, the pain is too much and i just cant take it, im sorry and by the time you read this im hoping that it will be too late as i plan to od on effexor and solpahdine in a few mins. Its ok, i mean i refuse to live where iv met my dream girl and believe me kasia is my dream girl and not have her, theres no point anymore, ah well good old eric loses out again, story of my life, ha ha…so michelle thanks for everything and i hope you take care, dont worry abt me, ok…..iv included a pic of emma, the most recent one i took of her and i bought her loads for her birthday b/c i wont b around and im also leaving all my things to her, i love her but ur prob thinking then how cud i do this, she will understand in time, when she is older, i cant just stay alive in thisi nightmare just for her evn though i love her to bits and i will miss her very much. take care of yourself Goodbye Eric. This was sent on aug. 30th USA time. I have not heard frm. him since. I dont know how to find out whats going on. He has been my friend online for 1 year. I know little about his family but I do know he has been obsessed w/ completing suicide. This is how we began talking, from a post he made here. Someone please lead me to where I can find out what is going on. Thank You all so much!
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a police station in ireland is called a garda station. in the directories i found a number for one in dublin 018437202 but you will need a code to ring from america. i suggest you try to ring them and get someone to investigate this. hope everything works out.
if u think hes serious, u need to call the local police station to where he lives and they can go to his address and check up on him.
99 percent of the time, the people who say they are gonna commit suicide are the ones who never do. Being as far away as you can, I cannot see much you can do. If you know his full name you can try to do a search online for a suicide in his area and see if it did happen, or just wait and see if he comes back on line. Given the date of the email, he has already either done it or just hasnt and chickened out (sorry but the truth can hurt). At this point there is very little you can do except move on with your life and be there for him as a friend if/when he comes back online.
Call the police and give them all the information you can. the little you know about his family, use it to the best of your ability. Do you have any way to contact the girl he was in love with? im so sorry this is happening. i lost my very best friend to suicide almost three years ago. i pray with my heart that eric is ok and that you won’t go through the pain of losing your best friend.
Sounds like a load of old blarney to me.A pointless cry for help or done to upset you.I wouldn;t worry if i were you.People who always talk about suicide rarely do it
I don’t think he is serios but you should try and get him to talk to someone. That’s all you can do. sometimes writing something like that is just a cry for help
He is responsible for his own actions….sorry